Hope you calm down and have a nice day. He wouldn't act aggressively though, but I did feel bad for him. You are dead wrong about one thing. As far as corporal punishment no longer being allowed in schools, it is only your supposition that it has led to bullying and unruliness. Even if we decide to ignore all of the scientific studies, and ignore all of the risks, there are less dangerous pain based aversive methods that can be used. Better read your Bible again, instead of believing everything people tell you is in there.
To spank, or not to spank?
Rather than fixing the behavior or understanding your child's underlying problems based on his history, you need to create safety and security so that she can experience emotional connectedness and healing. Contemporary experts urge against all uses of physical discipline. In aversive training, we discourage a behavior by applying a negative stimulus e. Lions, for example, have dominance over most other animals because they have size, power, and big teeth. Never forget that when the Bible addresses the responsibility that parents have to discipline their children, "nurture" comes before "the admonition of the Lord" Ephesians 6: Yeah, both my Sibes have high prey drive as well. This creates an impasse for both the parents and the child.
Disciplining Your Child
If running away is not an option or if the dog feels cornered, he will probably try to protect himself with his teeth. The best way to let a child know she's done something wrong is to make the point that undesirable acts can often have undesirable results. Remember, getting sent to your room isn't effective if a computer, TV, or games are there. Your post is difficult at best to read and looks like a big jumbled mess madam or sir. Discipline-Based Dog Training," delves into the meaning of "stimulus-event-emotion" conditioning:. Thanks for the good and civil discussion.
People need to question and change their belief that spanking is effective, said Seattle-based parent educator and author Elizabeth Crary. England's first civic university Heritage Tour — Manchester, Manchester. If the child has no problem accepting positive feedback then, of course, address the child directly. An infant is exploring his environment. British lawmakers decided last week not to join those nations, voting down a ban on parents spanking their children but making it easier to prosecute those who abuse their children by spanking.